CONNECT, REFLECT, NUTURE YOUR RELATIONSHIPS
About Sexy Secrets
What We Offer
At Sexy Secrets, we provide practical, guided relationship workshops designed to meet you exactly where you are—whether you’re single, exploring a new connection, or nurturing a long-term partnership.
Our workshops combine research-based tools, expert guidance, and supportive group activities to help you build stronger connections, manage conflict constructively, and grow your emotional confidence.
Starting with our Lessons in Love workshop for singles and individuals, we’re excited to expand our offerings to cover key life transitions and relationship milestones—like bringing a baby home and adapting to new stages together.
No matter your relationship status or experience, Sexy Secrets empowers you to connect, reflect, and nurture meaningful relationships that last.
Lessons in Love: Seven Principles for Singles
Who is the program designed for?
- Singles
- Divorced individuals
- Adults 18+
- Children
- Anyone who wants to work on their relationship skills individually
Who It’s Not For
- Non-monogamous relationships (the program is not designed to support these)
- Individuals with active addictions (alcohol, drug, sexual, gambling, etc.)
- Those experiencing serious mental health problems
Schedule
- Saturdays: The first two Saturdays or the last two Saturdays of each month, from 08:30 AM to 1:00 PM. Workshop 7 hours in total.
- Cost - R4500
- Weekdays:The workshop takes place over two weekdays: the first and second Tuesday or Wednesday or Thursday and the third and fourth Tuesday or Wednesday or Thursday of each month, from 06:30 PM to 9:00 PM. Workshop 4 hours in total.
- Cost - R3500
Location:
- The Garden Venue, Northriding, Randburg
Have questions?
We’ve got you covered. Here are some of the most common questions we receive about our workshops, so you can feel informed and confident before registering.
This workshop is based on over 50 years of relationship research by Drs. John and Julie Gottman. It’s designed to help singles, divorced individuals, or those seeking to strengthen a current relationship on their own to build healthy, lasting relational skills.
Not at all. This workshop is designed specifically for individuals, whether you’re single, divorced, or wishing to enhance your relationship skills independently.
No. While the workshop includes group activities and discussions, you are not required to share anything personal unless you feel comfortable doing so.
The workshop takes place over two Saturdays each month — the first two Saturdays and the last two Saturdays — from 08:30 AM to 1:00 PM.
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The workshop takes place over either the first and second Tuesday or Wednesday or Thursday, or the third and fourth Tuesday or Wednesday or Thursday of each month — from 06:30 PM to 9:00 PM.
Workshops are held at The Garden Venue, Northriding, Johannesburg. Full venue details will be provided upon registration.
This specific program is not designed to support non-monogamous or open relationships, as the research behind it is based on traditional relationship models.
The cost is R4500 per person for the two Saturday’s workshop and R3500 for the two-weekday workshop. You can register online through our website.
Just yourself, a notebook or journal if you’d like to take notes, and an open mind. We’ll provide all workshop materials.
Cancellations made at least 7 days before the workshop will receive a full refund. Cancellations within 7 days are non-refundable, but you may reschedule for a future date.
We are working on new offerings, including workshops for couples and for major life transitions such as bringing a baby home. Join our mailing list to stay updated!
How we can help you be happier
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Workshops
Transform how you love and connect. Our interactive workshops teach real tools to build lasting intimacy, trust, and emotional safety.
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